2018 so far…
I can’t believe it’s the 21st already and I’ve already achieved my goal for January. I recently hit 2000 followers on IG and I’m grateful. You guys are the real Gees. I promised a story time and best believe I will deliver. I recently collaborated with an upcoming photographer who had been reaching out to me for a collab since last year and this year I finally felt like I was ready for it. For this post let’s call the photographer “Bami”. So Bami and I were scheduled to meet up at about 1pm but Bami decided to be 3hours late; by the way I have a thing for time especially when it comes to business so it got me really upset but I couldn’t afford to have ugly pictures because your mood definitely affects the way your pictures come out. Eventually Bami shows up all apologetic and we take the pictures. Fast forward to 2days later Bami still hadn’t sent me my pictures and naturally I became agitated. Long story short Bami lost all my pictures and couldn’t even call to apologize or say it to me. I had to find out through a friend that Bamis laptop crashed causing Bami to loose all his work. 
The essence of this story is not to insult Bami or highlight Bamis flaws but to tell you how much that particular incident affected me. I really couldn’t believe the amount of emotional stress that incident put me through but all in all I thank God for being there for me. My point however is that you really don’t know what people go through to come up with the things they come up with all we see is the finished work so if you’re in a position to help someone why not do it or better still if you can’t then just say it, nobody will beat you. Working with people is a different ball game and requires a lot of maturity, patience and commitment.
Well, it’s a new week and I’m ready to take it by the balls (excuse my French). Moving on to the matter on ground my outfit was inspired by boredom and to be honest I always wanted to catch on with the fanny pack trend I think I nailed it, don’t you?
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Outfit details
Top: H&M
Skirt: Boohoo
Fishnet: ASOS
Brogues: primark
Fanny pack: Boohoo
Socks: random
10 Comments
CWISTIE'S GALLERY
Its actually nice u handled the issue wisely…. But he was wrong not to inform u about what happened to ur pictures
aestheticallycookie
Thanks, I don’t know how people do things like that it honestly took a lot of discipline for me to handle it that way. 💗
Withgift
Aww..quite frankly I hate being kept waiting! Like it literally grows on me..one time a friend was supposed to help me take pictures and he showed up real late, lord knows I rained down fire and brimstone..lol..btw I got me fanny pack too and have been tryna figure out how to put it on the way u did bt now I got it!! And 2k.. go gurll!!!😚
aestheticallycookie
Thanks so much. Tbh waiting for people gets on my very last nerve and when they don’t have the courtesy to inform you ahead of time then it makes the situation worse. I’m waiting to see you style your own Fanny 💗💗
Panrot
It’s so nice that you handled it so clamly regardless of the fact that he was wrong and at fault.. I love love love the skirt and you made the whole look work!💜
aestheticallycookie
Thanks love, I’m glad you like the outfit. The whole experience was a really trying one but thank goodness everything worked out.
Ada
I literally lack patience for lateness. I know how you feel let that day. I’d be getting a fanny pack soon too. Love how you styled yours http://www.adagirl.com.ng
aestheticallycookie
Thanks dear, you should totally style it. I’ll be looking out for your post.
Subomi Salami
I love love love that metallic fanny pack! Great post and sorry about the photograher issues!
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aestheticallycookie
Thanks darl, ikr there’s something about metallics that screams glam.